Today’s episode address a question about Black men who have always dated outside the race, and then come back to Black women.
Oh snap! Does that make you feel some kind of way?
Here’s the question from Theresa:
I’m dating a guy I really like. But here’s the issue: All of his past serious relationships have been with white women, a Dominican and a light skinned Black woman. He’s over 50 years old! Where do I fit into this equation? I’m sooo different! I’m a REAL Black woman, dark and thick chile’! I’m just wondering how I was even considered based on his past choices. I don’t want to be anybody’s experiment. Dr. A., I loathe interracial relationships especially between a black man and white woman because I feel that the men who choose them think they’re better than Black women. I see it as a DISS towards sisters. A white woman can have any ethnicity she wants! Black men and Black women should be together! How do I not judge him on the fact that he didn’t have relationships exclusively with Black women?
If you take it personally when a Black man dates “Becky with the good hair,” then you MUST tune in to this episode of Ask Dr. Aesha. Watch now: