I’ve been seeing this guy for almost two years now. It’s long distance (he lives about 2 hours away). My question is, when is it too soon to label what we have?
I consider anything over a year a relationship, but he calls it “getting to know one another.” We do more texting than anything. I would say 90% of the time we’re texting, and he will come see me twice a month. So I told him that whatever we have going on can no longer be because of the fact the I’ve been more than patient with him and I don’t want to waste anymore of my time with this “getting to each other better ordeal”. He explains to me that he knew that this was coming sooner or later. So for a week I didn’t call or text him. Then he decides to call and we talked for an hour, which never ever happened before.
But to make a long story short he really doesn’t have a lot of time because of the line of work that he does. But he agreed to call me every evening. My question to you is what do you make of this. Oh, let me not to forget to mention that we’ve never been on a date..🙄🤔 yea I know.. no dinner, no movie, no nothing. (I know you must be thinking that I’m crazy right). Thank you for your listening ear.
No, sis, I don’t think you’re crazy, but I do think you’ve already wasted too much time with this situation. I’ve got to be honest and tell you, this isn’t a relationship. This is a long distance booty call, honey! There are 3 big warning signs that reveal this is nothing more than a 2-year hook up. Watch now!
Alright, family. I want to hear from you! What advice would you give this sista if she were your best friend? Post your comments below!