Hey Dr. Aesha–
Help!!! I’m single…and thirsty. I will go into a venue and hope that there are less females there so I will get noticed. It’s like growing up poor and hoarding the food. I even started visiting churches to scope out the guys but it’s too hard to tell who is single. I’m open to online dating but I feel the same way about it. I’ll wonder who else they’re seeing on there. Freaks me out, sometimes to the point where I shut down. I usually end up meeting guys when I’m running errands and it’s the farthest thing on my mind..I just want to find mine before he’s scooped up! What’s your word on being hella thirsty and afraid at the same time (SMH) Thanks!!
Alright sis, I want you to take a few deep breaths before we have our chat. There are a few things causing your desperation in dating, and I want to help you get to the bottom of it. First, you need to understand that we’re only thirsty because 1) we have needs we aren’t addressing 2) you’re withholding something from yourself. For instance, if you wake up in the middle of the night feeling dry and you reach for a glass of water, it’s because you didn’t meet your hydration needs during the day. So I want you to consider that you have some unmet needs that are driving your thirst and causing you to feel afraid of losing love.
I can help you shift your thinking around being thirsty and turn your desperation into determination in this powerful, eye-opening broadcast I did on Instagram. You’ll discover:
- What it really means to be desperate
- What are the root causes of your fear of missing out on love
- And how to overcome this so you are confidently attracting love into your life.
Pay attention to about 10 minutes in, because I’m giving a BIG BONUS that will accelerate your dating results. Watch now: