AeshaOnline TV Episode #3: 3 Mistakes Smart, Successful Women Make When Looking For Love I'm known as a "Myth-Buster" when it comes to ideas most people have about dating, relationships and marriage. If you're a successful, single woman who's looking for love you've probably been told: "You're talented, amazing & confident. Just stay focused on your career and your goals. The right man will come along; these things just take care of themselves!" The truth is, you have to make your love life a priority. For couples that means making time for each other; for singles, that means actively looking for a relationship. Love doesn't "just happen" In this episode of AeshaOnline TV, I BUST this myth and reveal 3 mistakes smart, successful single women make when looking for a lasting relationship and how to avoid them. Grab a pen & paper because I'm about to reveal secrets that can be the game-changer in your love life! WATCH NOW! ...
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How To Buy The Perfect Gift For Your Spouse By Aesha Adams-Roberts Last Christmas season a sister came to me stressed out about what to get her boyfriend for Christmas. He's really into sports, she said, and he likes expensive watches, but he already has everything. She decided to get him some nice sweaters, an expensive Laker's watch, and some other sports memorabilia. When I saw her after Christmas I asked her how everything went. He hated everything, she said. I told him I'm not even going to try anymore. Has this ever happened to you? For many people, trying to figure out what to give the one you love for Christmas gifts is very stressful. But it doesn't have to be if you keep this one thing in mind: When getting a gift for your husband or boyfriend, shop with their love language in mind, not yours (this works for men getting gifts for their wife or girlfriend). Gary Chapman coined the phrase "love language" in his book, The Five Love Languages. He explains that everyone experiences love in a different way–a different language–although we're usually attracted to someone who speaks a different love language from our own. I recommend you visit Gary Chapman's site www.5lovelanguages.com to take a quick quiz on the five different languages, but for now, I'll give you a quick summary of each language and a few gift ideas for each. 1) Words of affirmation–these include loving words, unsolicited compliments, and appreciation . The man whose love language is affirmation loves to hear "I love you" and wants to know why you love him. Gift...
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It was the riskiest thing I’d ever done. I just packed my things, loaded my car and started driving. I’d never driven alone on the highway before, but I was desperate to get away from a very toxic relationship. The physical distance helped, but I still had some emotional baggage. I kept talking to him on the phone and even planned to spend Christmas with his family. A few days before Christmas, I called him at our usual time. His roommate told me he wasn’t there. “He asked to borrow my car,” she said. “I don’t know, Aesha. I don’t know,” she said. I could tell something wasn’t right. When I brought it up to him the next day, he “confessed” that he was on a date with another woman! I was angry, heartbroken and somewhat relieved that I finally had the courage to break it off for good. My new roommate didn’t want me to be alone for the holidays and invited me to spend Christmas with her family. Being surrounded by new friends and family helped to soothe the ache I felt in my heart. At that moment, I had a mindset shift and decided to enjoy the holidays no matter what. The following year, I moved back to my hometown in the Midwest. This time Christmas would be different. In October I’d met an amazing man and we were spending quite a bit of time together. I’d invited him to Thanksgiving and he accepted. After Thanksgiving dinner we had our first official date, but we still hadn’t started a relationship. In fact, he’d kept...
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This Christmas, We've Made It Easier Than Ever To Find And Keep The Love Of Your Life! Around this time 3 years ago, Tiffany–a strong, successful woman–got a copy of my bestselling book, Can I Help A Sister Out: How To Meet And Marry The Man of Your Dreams. A short time later, she wrote me to say she was dating a wonderful man. I was happy to hear that Tiffany was back in the dating game, this time with joy and confidence after having experienced a broken engagement years ago. Imagine my surprise when she wrote to tell me she was engaged and was getting married in a beautiful winter wedding! Today, she's celebrating her 1 year wedding anniversary and tells me her marriage is sizzling HOT! What if . . . one year from now, YOU were the one writing me to say you'd met and married the man of your dreams? Imagine what your life could look like with a marriage that's fun, fulfilling and HOTTER than ever? This Christmas, we've made it easier for you to find and keep the love of your life! If you've been waiting for the right moment to create the relationship of your dreams . . . this is it! On Monday, December 9, 2013, we begin The 5 Days of Christmas Event 5 Days. 5 Gifts. 5 ridiculous deals to help you find and keep the love of your life! We've never done anything like this before! Each day you'll find a limited-time offer in your inbox. We'll be releasing our newest eBook, Keep Your Marriage Hot & Everything You've Dreamed About Long After The Honeymoon is Over, and "Aesha Claus" will be...
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Top 4 Reasons Men Are Afraid Of Commitment By: Aesha Adams-Roberts Have you seen the hot new reality TV show, Preachers of LA? If so, you've seen the on again, off again relationship between Bishop Noel Jones and Loretta who have been "friends" for 16 years. Yes, that's right, for 16 years, Loretta has been praying, talking and fighting for Bishop Jones to marry her. Whenever she asks him to define the relationship, he always says they're "friends." When she confidently asserts they're moving toward marriage, he pretends he doesn't know what she's talking about. And when the other men on the show ask him when he's going to marry Loretta, he looks like he wants to run away screaming! Loretta finally confronts him about his "commitment phobia" and demands he gets to the bottom of it. He goes to see a therapist who reveals some root issues of his fear of commitment and advises him to go on a "NO CONTACT" break from Loretta. Loretta is floored when she hears Bishop Jones tell her he's taking a break to figure out what's best for him, and not for them! If you plan to catch up on the first season, I won't tell you what happens next (girl, you won't believe it!) but their entire situation reminds me of some of the emails I get from women who wonder why their boyfriend won't put a ring on it! Why won't he seal the deal and take the relationship from casual to committed? In my conversations with guys who are looking for a serious relationship, I've discovered 4 top reasons why men are afraid of commitment:...
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AeshaOnline TV Episode #2: What To Do If Your Husband Has A Low Sex Drive By: Aesha Adams Roberts In 30% of marriages, the wife struggles with her husband having a low sex drive. Grab a pen & paper because in this episode, Dr. Aesha gives 4 little known secrets to help couples overcome this problem, including questions to ask your doctor, how to talk to your husband without fighting, what wives can do to stop feeling angry & rejected, and a POWERFUL, easy to use remedy you can use tonight that's better than the little blue pill! Watch...
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"What's wrong with me?" I've spent too many minutes, hours and days asking myself this question. Whenever I made a mistake as a mom or had an argument with my husband, I could hear this question resounding in my head. When I was dating, this question nagged me every time a relationship ended badly or I found myself at home alone on another Saturday night. Have you ever felt like this? Like you weren't good enough or smart enough or pretty enough or kind enough? If so, let me speak truth to you now. You are a good enough parent. You are a good enough spouse. You are a good enough person who is worthy of love and respect. Your mistakes, shortcomings and past failures do NOT define who you are. Your identity is based on the fact that you are accepted and deeply loved by God, just as you are, right now. It's time for YOU to accept yourself. You are good enough! Love, Aesha ...
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AeshaOnline TV Episode #1: Why Men Pull Away (And What To Do About It) By: Aesha Adams Roberts Welcome to the very first episode of AeshaOnline TV where I share secrets, tips and advice to help you find and keep the love of your life. In today's episode, I'm answering a question from a reader who wants to know: Why men pull away when things get serious in a relationship? If you've ever felt like everything was going great and then, out of nowhere, he changes, OR you've heard "I'm not ready for a relationship" from a man you've dated, today's episode will give you some answers! Grab a pen & paper because I'm revealing what motivates a man to stay in a relationship, how to tell if he's not into you anymore, and what you can do about it. WATCH...
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