How To Talk To A Guy Who Is Out Of Your League By: Aesha Adams-Roberts I recently received a direct message from one of our clients that reminded me of many emails we receive at AeshaOnline.com. A beautiful, talented sister wanted to know how to talk to a guy she likes. She wrote: So, I like this guy on the worship team. He knows about me, but I can't muster up the courage to talk to him.He is a recording artist, single but I think he dates. (Like Barbie girls). What is the best way to talk to him? Approaching a guy you like can be scary and overwhelming especially if you don’t know if he’s interested in you. I have a very simple and easy method to starting a conversation with a guy you like or are interested in, one that I used when I first met my husband six years ago. Not only did I use these keys to start a conversation with my husband (even when it appeared he wasn’t remotely interested in me) but I also used them whenever I went on a date with him or saw him around church or work. These keys are part of the reason why my husband loved spending time with me, and why we got married after only 11 months of dating. 1) Focus on just getting to know him. If you approach him for the first time trying to get him to like you, you’ll put too much pressure on yourself. You’ll end up trying to impress him and the focus will be on YOU and not... Read More
What Is Your Greatest Dating & Marriage Challenge?
I need your help! Every day I receive emails, direct messages, and social media posts asking for dating and relationship advice. How do I know if he's the one? How do I muster up enough courage to talk to that guy I like? How do I get my husband to be more intimate with me? I am here to serve you . . . but I need your help! Please watch this video and share your answers with me in a comment box below! I'm here for you! Your sister,... Read More
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All Things Come To An End
“You’re baaaaack! I’m so excited!” I grinned when I saw more than one of my Facebook friends post this message on my wall. Yes, I am back, with a story to tell you. After going through months of horrific nausea, vomiting, hospitalizations, home health care, and IV treatments, I am finally feeling better and excited about the life growing inside of me. But if I’m honest, while I was struggling with this health challenge, there were days that I felt hopeless. I was emotionally and physically weary and yes, even a little depressed. Have you ever felt like that? We all struggle from time to time. I know how hard it is to hold on to your dreams while you’re going through that struggle. Sometimes you feel hopeless and weary. Will things ever change? Will I ever find true love? Will my marriage ever be healed and restored? Will I ever be happy? Let me encourage you. All things come to an end. But as Dr. Henry Cloud says in his book Necessary Endings "some things die and some things need to be killed." In other words, some things will end on their own, but other things require you to take some type of action before it will end. I want you to know that I am here for you. I want to support you whether you are waiting for a tough season in your life to end or whether you need to make some hard decisions to before you can have the new beginning you long for. My sisters, there... Read More