Top 5 Reasons You Need A Matchmaker and Dating Coach By: Dr. Aesha When people hear what I do for a living, I get a variety of responses. Some people are curious. Others get defensive and think I’m trying to say something is wrong with them. They assume that when I hand them a business card, I’m telling them they can’t get a partner on their own! So I think it’s time to set the record straight. I want to clear up the confusion about what I actually do as a dating coach and relationship consultant and explain the top 5 reasons why you need one. I know many folks in the Black community have never heard of a matchmaker until they saw Patti Stringer on Millionaire Matchmaker. We’re so used to meeting people at church, the gym or grocery store and we’re still a little suspicious of online dating. As women, we were taught not to do anything otherwise you’re acting thirst or desperate. You may have told that it’s the man’s job to find you. “I’ll just wait til the right person comes along or God sends ’em.” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this! But how can he find you if you’re on your coach every weekend, with your doo rag on, catching up on Greenleaf, Empire and How To Get Away With Murder? Why not find someone who can show you exactly how to position yourself in the right dating pools so that your perfect partner can find you? I believe part the reason why our community doesn’t reach out for help in... Read More
Top 5 Reasons You Need A Dating Coach
Top 5 Reasons You Need A Matchmaker and Dating Coach By: Dr. Aesha When people hear what I do for a living, I get a variety of responses. Some people are curious. Others get defensive and think I’m trying to say something is wrong with them. They assume that when I hand them a business card, I’m telling them they can’t get a partner on their own! So I think it’s time to set the record straight. I want to clear up the confusion about what I actually do as a dating coach and relationship consultant and explain the top 5 reasons why you need one. I know many folks in the Black community have never heard of a matchmaker until they saw Patti Stringer on Millionaire Matchmaker. We’re so used to meeting people at church, the gym or grocery store and we’re still a little suspicious of online dating. As women, we were taught not to do anything otherwise you’re acting thirst or desperate. You may have told that it’s the man’s job to find you. “I’ll just wait til the right person comes along or God sends ’em.” I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard this! But how can he find you if you’re on your coach every weekend, with your doo rag on, catching up on Greenleaf, Empire and How To Get Away With Murder? Why not find someone who can show you exactly how to position yourself in the right dating pools so that your perfect partner can find you? I believe part the reason why our community doesn’t reach out for help in... Read More